I can't stop thinking about my wife in bed with her ex

DEAR DEIDRE: EVERY time my wife wants to try a new sexual position, I think about her with the man she was seeing before me.

Sex before marriage isn’t a good thing in my culture.

She admitted she had a boyfriend before we married and they “did sexual stuff”.

I’m a very jealous man, so I keep thinking about her with him.

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We are both 36 and we have three children under five.

We have a great sex life, but when she suggests we try something new sexually, I always think, “This is what she did with him”.

DEIDRE SAYS: You may feel unhappy about her past, but she chose you.

You are the one she loves, you are the one she wants sex with – the other guy is history.

We all have a past and it is our history that makes us who we are today.

You owe it to your children to look to your future rather than dwelling on her past. My support pack called Relationship MOT will help.

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